It's probably good that only a few people deal with grief in this manner
Given the geopolitical context of the war, it's a little bizarro that her memorial to her son <a href = "http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-hummer3mar03,0,1641895.story?coll=la-home-headlines">is a lavishly painted Hummer</a>. (check out the photos)